Thursday, May 06, 2004

A lot has happened since I started this blog and I have left out alot that I should have posted. I don't feel I posted anything that I shouldn't have. Most who know about these postings say that shouldn't be on the web because if it falls on the wrong desktop I might find myself in an awkward predicament. I REALLY FEEL AT PEACE WITH WHAT IS HERE AND HAVE NO REGRETS. The Mgr. is back and we have been through some rough resolution in our relationship. Through the grace of God and my support system I have remained at peace.

The boss had some serious hurt feelings and issues with me not keeping in touch with him while he was in recovery. He felt betrayal. Our first meeting led to some heated words, but I stated my thoughts and purpose honestly and without resolve. He agreed after he worked through it himself that I was correct and working in his best interest.My feelings about the Asst. Mgr. were a big issue but I stated things the way I have seen them for years. The problems I see are real and he couldn't deny the facts. I thought at one point that I would be fired. All ended well though and he thanked me for the job I did in his absence.

The three of us met the following day for a group therapy session. We discussed the Asst.'s hurt feelings. I simply stated I did what was asked of me and that I did all for all of our best interest.

We hugged ( part of the recovery process ) and all felt we could work together for a better future.

I was given a bonus and a salary increase the following day. I certainly feel great about that and it still is the BEST GIG IN TOWN.

This is a new beginning in a lot of ways. The future of the club and what changes occur now remain to be seen. I hope the best is yet to come.